Despite having had an amazing home water birth with my first child, and having watched a few feature film lengths of birthing videos on youtube and around the web, whenever I think of childbirth, I still have the mental image of legs up in stirrups and nurses and doctors and pale looking fathers urging a screaming mother to ‘push, push,push!’ Such is the level of our indoctrination by TV, really!
The reality can and should be much different though. For a start, when a woman has sensation in her lower body, (i.e. hasn’t had strong pain medications) she knows all too well when to push. In fact, it’s physically impossible not to push. Your body just does it and there’s no stopping it. The picture you see on TV is what happens when the mother-to-be has had an epidural and can’t feel the natural urges to push. You then have a nurse, midwife or doctor looking at a screen to monitor when the contractions have started, and telling the mother to push.Read more: Pushing During Childbirth – Spontaneous Or Directed?