One of the things I really like about baby led weaning is the theory that a baby will only eat what isn’t bad for them. According to this theory, when a baby won’t eat something, they will generally later be found to have an intolerance or allergy to it.
So, on to the story. Last month my granmother, my daughter Ameli and I were sitting in a pub in Stratford on Avon having lunch. We ordered traditional haddock and chips, which they set down with a big pot of peas.
I put a finger sized sliver of fish down in front of Ameli. I put two unsalted chips down in front of Ameli. I put a tablespoon of peas down in front of Ameli. She ate the fish. She ate the chips. She put one pea in her mouth and I don’t know if she ate it or not, but then she took her training cup and proceeded to mash the peas up quite violently before shoving them to the ground.
I have never seen her do that to any food.
My gran, sceptical from the beginning about letting an eight month old feed herself was quite taken aback. She then told me that she did not eat peas because of a intestinal condition she has had for years: when she eats peas they cause gas pockets in her intestines.
It dawned on me that I have never liked peas either.
Perhaps some day in the future I will have her tested for allergies and intolerances, but till then, we’ll keep peas off the menu. Just in case.